What great news it is that you are in charge of your own inner peace. People are meaning-makers and the meaning of any situation in life is up to you. I saw a humorous meme that said something like- no matter who wins the election the majority of the problems in your life are still your fault. That cracked me up, but it was a good reminder to mind our own houses. I am not a fan of blame, but I am a fan of personal responsibility for living your life on your terms. Stay in your personal power. Create your own personal narrative. The loudest voices are not necessarily the truthful voices and no one has the power to make you feel bad or helpless. Sending you positive vibes. Keep reading for more tips on living a magical and empowered life.

The quality and experience of your life are directly related to how you think. If you want to have a magical life, focus on mastering your mindset, and then everything else falls into place. How you think determines your perception, therefore your reality. So if you want to change your reality, it starts with your thinking. Falling into thinking traps becomes so easy when you are busy and distracted. You might forget to do the things that keep you grounded and centered like exercise, writing in a journal, meditation, deep breathing, and rest.

When you step away from your center, ego takes over. Suddenly, you are insulted and angry because people don’t say thank you, or the person in line ahead or behind you is rude. You feel like your colleagues don’t appreciate you. You forget that people are human and not perfect. Your happiness dips and you may slide into overwhelm.

Your world is created by how you think. You are capable of being a deliberate creator of your life and experiences instead of merely reacting. Keep your focus on a growth mindset where you know you can develop strengths and keep learning. Nothing is fixed. Your personality, your talent can all be developed. You are capable of change.

You have the power to choose your responses. You can choose to pause before you speak or act. You can also use “the pause” to adjust your thinking. For example, when someone doesn’t say thank you, you pause and reframe the situation. Maybe that person is distracted, stressed, or worried. Maybe you CAN do nice things without depending on being thanked.

Your happiness does not depend on anyone else’s reaction.
Happiness is a decision. It’s a state of being. You can choose a happiness mindset.  You can make that choice without it being contingent on job offers, money, status, relationships. etc.

Your view of success is a thought choice, too. When I coach people, I encourage the idea that you are a successful writer, actor, coach, healer, or business person before the book gets published, the role is landed, or the clients come in. This success mindset paves the way for bringing their dreams into reality.

In Happiness,

Sheri Kaye Hoff

Coach, Trainer, Mentor, and Author, Sheri Kaye Hoff, is known for inspiring massive action and being a catalyst for personal and business growth, joy, and profits in a way that is fun, relaxing, and fulfilling, Sheri inspires people to do the work they love and make more money. Sheri offers business and mindset coaching for business owners and professionals ( including life coaches, health coaches, creatives, personal coaches, spiritual entrepreneurs, consultants, and more) to relax into success. She uses both spiritual and practical techniques to obliterate blocks and create dramatic change. She is a business, leadership, happiness, and mindset expert. She has overcome nearly dying, and the loss of her brother at an early age. She has made it her life mission to share the keys to happiness and success with her clients and community. Learn More About Sheri

Specializing in life mastery for individuals, business coaching for life coaches, business coaching for health coaches, business coaching for creatives, business coaching for spiritual entrepreneurs, business coaching for creatives, business coaching for consultants, business coaching for professionals, business coaching for boutique online retailers.

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